What if pastors were graded, I mean besides the grade attenders give in the critiques on the ride home or gathered around Sunday's dinner table. What if each pastor considered their strengths and weaknesses and made it a matter of prayer? What if church
members were praying for those very things. When I saw this list by Thom Rainer, it reminded me of some areas that I need to work on, Read through this list and pray for your pastor's.
members were praying for those very things. When I saw this list by Thom Rainer, it reminded me of some areas that I need to work on, Read through this list and pray for your pastor's.
"As a change of pace... I recently asked a few hundred laypersons to write down what they desired of a pastor. Their responses were open-ended, and there was no limitation on the number of items they could list. Though my approach was not scientific, these laypersons did represent over sixty churches.
Here are their top ten responses in order of frequency. Since many of them gave one or more sentences as a response, I can provide a representative comment by each of the responses.
- Love of congregation. “If we know that our pastor loves us, everything else falls in place. If he doesn’t, nothing else matters.”
- Effective preaching. “I don’t have any expectation that my preacher be one of the best in the world, I just want to know that he has spent time in the Word each week to teach us effectively and consistently.”
- Strong character. “No pastor is perfect, but I do want a pastor whose character is above reproach on moral, family, and financial issues.”
- Good work ethic. “I don’t want either a workaholic pastor or a lazy pastor. Unfortunately, our last two pastors have been obviously lazy.”
- Casts a vision. “Our church has so much possibility; I want to hear what we will do to make a difference in our community and the world.”
- Demonstrates healthy leadership. “Most of the pastors in my church have demonstrated a good balance; they have been strong leaders but not dictators.”
- Joyous. “Our current pastor is a man of joy. His joy and enthusiasm are contagious. I love him for that!”
- Does not yield to critics. “I know that every pastor serving today has his critics. And I know it’s tough to deal with them. I just want these pastors to know that we supporters are in the majority. Please don’t let the minority critics dictate how you lead and serve.”
- Transparent. “Every pastor that I have had has been open and transparent about the church and the direction we are headed. It sure has made our church healthier.”
- Models evangelism. “Our pastor is passionate about sharing the gospel. His heart and attitude are contagious.”
What do you think about this list? What would you add from the perspective of either a pastor or a layperson?"
That's a great list. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI would also put the first three comments down in the same order, but then I would put number 10 next. 4-9 are great but to me they fall into the category of personality, and it seems to me that pastors can be very effective even with less of a type A personality, but not if their priorities of loving God, loving their congregation and working for them to mature in faith, being morally above reproach, and wanting to see others saved are not there. Of course, this is the perspective from the pew, I really do not know what pastprs have to deal with on a daily basis.
ReplyDeleteThese were listed in order of frequency by those surveyed, not by order of importance. It also assumes some things are taken for granted - which maybe shouldn't be, like "Love for God".
ReplyDeleteoh, that makes it clear.
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